It Begins Within Blog

Delve into a rich collection of articles on mental health, relationships, and personal growth, curated by the team of experts at It Begins Within Healing Center.

Signs of Anxiety in Teens That Parents Often Miss
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Signs of Anxiety in Teens That Parents Often Miss

Most teens do not announce that they are anxious. It shows up as irritability, procrastination, physical complaints, or perfectionism instead. Andreas Balasis, LCSW, breaks down the signs of teen anxiety parents most often miss, and how to open the door to connection at home.

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What to Look for in a Couples Retreat with Therapy
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

What to Look for in a Couples Retreat with Therapy

If weekly sessions feel too slow for what you're carrying right now — you're not behind, and you're not out of options.

A couples retreat with therapy gives you dedicated, uninterrupted time to do the deeper work of reconnecting, guided by a licensed clinician who knows how to hold the hard moments safely.

It's not about fixing everything in a weekend. It's about real, durable progress in a focused, well-supported window.

Here's what a genuine therapeutic retreat looks like — and how to choose one with confidence.

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Hypnotherapy for Anxiety
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Hypnotherapy for Anxiety

You know the fear is not rational, but your body has not gotten the message. A licensed clinician on how hypnotherapy helps retrain the automatic part of anxiety, alongside CBT and exposure work.

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Hypnotherapy for Weight Loss & Emotional Eating
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Hypnotherapy for Weight Loss & Emotional Eating

You already know how weight loss works — eat less, move more. So why doesn't knowing translate into doing? Andreas Balasis, LCSW (and former ACE Certified Personal Trainer) on the gap between conscious knowledge and automatic behavior.

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Using Hypnotherapy to Quit Smoking
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Using Hypnotherapy to Quit Smoking

Most people think quitting smoking is about beating nicotine. But the cigarette tied to your morning coffee, your commute, your stressful afternoon—those automatic associations often outlast the chemical withdrawal. Clinical hypnotherapy works with those conditioned patterns. Not as a magic cure, but as one licensed-clinician-administered piece of a broader cessation plan. Our latest article breaks down what hypnotherapy actually targets in smoking cessation, how it fits alongside patches and medication, and why "staying quit" is its own process.

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Alexithymia: When You Cannot Find Words for What You Feel
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Alexithymia: When You Cannot Find Words for What You Feel

When someone asks how you feel and the word is simply not there, you are not avoiding the question. You may be experiencing alexithymia, the difficulty of identifying, describing, and distinguishing your own emotions. It is not a diagnosis. It is a skill gap, and one that responds well to the right kind of therapy.

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What Is Hypnotherapy & Does It Actually Work?
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

What Is Hypnotherapy & Does It Actually Work?

Clinical hypnotherapy carries more stigma than almost any evidence-based intervention, largely because most people's first exposure is stage hypnosis. Andreas Balasis, LCSW, CHP on what it actually is, how it works, and where the research is strongest.

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A Therapist's Guide to Choosing the Right Trauma Therapy
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

A Therapist's Guide to Choosing the Right Trauma Therapy

What's the best type of trauma therapy? The honest answer, it depends. EMDR, CPT, somatic therapy, ART, each works differently, and a skilled therapist matches the method to the person, not the other way around. Dr. Perleoni breaks down how that decision actually gets made.

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A Guide to Understanding The 7 Stages of Grief
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

A Guide to Understanding The 7 Stages of Grief

The 7 stages of grief can help put language to an experience that often feels chaotic, exhausting, and isolating. Learn what each stage may look like, why grief rarely happens in order, and how support can help you move through loss with more clarity and compassion.

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Stages of Trauma Therapy: A Visual Overview
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Stages of Trauma Therapy: A Visual Overview

Trauma therapy isn't a straight line, it's a journey through three carefully sequenced phases: Stabilization, Trauma Processing, and Integration. Each one builds the foundation for the next. Understanding where you are in the process can make the work feel less overwhelming and more intentional.

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Stages of Trauma Therapy: A Quick Overview
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Stages of Trauma Therapy: A Quick Overview

Trauma healing rarely happens all at once. Most people move through three important stages: stabilization, processing, and integration. In this guide, our therapists explain how trauma therapy works and what healing can actually look like.

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Couples Retreat for Reigniting Sexual and Emotional Intimacy
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Couples Retreat for Reigniting Sexual and Emotional Intimacy

When emotional and sexual intimacy disappears in a marriage, weekly therapy isn’t always enough.

This article explains why intimacy breaks down, why traditional therapy can fall short, and how an intensive couples retreat can help partners reconnect emotionally and physically.

Written by Dr. Mary Perleoni, founder of It Begins Within Healing Center.

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Why Moving Too Fast in Trauma Therapy Can Backfire
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Why Moving Too Fast in Trauma Therapy Can Backfire

Healing from trauma isn’t about diving into the deep end — it’s about learning to swim first.

In this article, Dr. Mary Perleoni explains why moving too fast in trauma therapy can increase overwhelm, dissociation, and even cause people to drop out of treatment. If you’re considering trauma therapy in Tampa, St. Petersburg, or Sarasota, this guide will help you understand what responsible, phase-based healing actually looks like.

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The Complete Guide to the Trauma Therapy Process
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

The Complete Guide to the Trauma Therapy Process

Healing from trauma isn’t about reliving the past — it’s about helping your nervous system finally feel safe again.

In this guide, Dr. Mary Perleoni walks you through the full trauma therapy process, including EMDR, PTSD treatment, and what real recovery looks like in Tampa, St. Petersburg, and Sarasota.

Healing is possible. And it begins with understanding.

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Understanding the 3 Stages of Trauma Therapy (And How Trauma Treatment Actually Works)
Mary Perleoni Mary Perleoni

Understanding the 3 Stages of Trauma Therapy (And How Trauma Treatment Actually Works)

Trauma recovery rarely feels linear, and that’s not a sign something is wrong.

Most evidence-based trauma therapy follows three stages:
1️⃣ Safety and stabilization
2️⃣ Trauma processing (like EMDR or CPT)
3️⃣ Integration and rebuilding

Understanding where you are in this process can reduce confusion, frustration, and the fear that therapy “isn’t working.”

If you’re in Tampa, St. Petersburg, or Sarasota and wondering whether trauma therapy could help you move beyond coping and into real resolution, we’re here to talk.

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