Infidelity & Affair Recovery Specialist
Kaitlyn Shelp, LMHC-QS
Clinical Director of Tampa & St. Petersburg
Licensed Mental Health Counselor & Qualified Supervisor
One of only two certified Systematic Affair Recovery Therapists in the State of Florida
About Kaitlyn
Kaitlyn has a passion for working with trauma of all varieties, particularly those individuals and couples trying to find healing after disclosure of infidelity. Her unique combination of experience and training allow her to tailor a treatment approach for clients that is systematic while producing relief and lasting change. She brings over 8 years of experience in helping individuals, couples and families heal through trauma.
Credentials & Education
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) — Florida | License #MH20348
M.A. in Counselor Education from the University of Central Florida
Certificate from Systematic Affair Recovery Therapy - 128298 / 2023
Certificate from ART International - 20-901671 / 2022
Video Introduction
Who Kaitlyn Supports
Couples recovering from infidelity - whether it's a recent disclosure, ongoing deception, or long-buried betrayal
Individuals processing betrayal trauma — the partner who discovered the affair and is experiencing PTSD-like symptoms
Couples stuck in crisis — navigating whether to stay together, rebuild, or separate
Partners seeking intensive support — needing more than weekly sessions to stabilize and heal
Tampa and St. Petersburg clients value Kaitlyn's ability to hold space for raw emotions while providing clear structure and actionable steps toward recovery.
Kaitlyn’s Approach to Therapy
Kaitlyn uses highly specialized, evidence-based modalities designed specifically for infidelity and trauma recovery. Her sessions are focused, directive, and compassionate.
She focuses on:
Stabilizing crisis and creating emotional safety in the immediate aftermath
Processing trauma rapidly using Accelerated Resolution Therapy
Rebuilding trust systematically through Systematic Affair Recovery Therapy
Addressing attachment injuries and relational patterns using Gottman research
Supporting decision-making for couples uncertain about the future
Providing intensive therapy options for couples needing concentrated healing work
Kaitlyn's office is a judgment-free space for pain, fear, vulnerability, breakthroughs, and hard decisions. Her approach is strength-based, trauma-informed, and built on the understanding that healing is possible—even when it doesn't feel like it.
What Kaitlyn Helps Clients With
Kaitlyn supports Tampa and St. Petersburg couples and individuals experiencing:
Infidelity recovery — emotional affairs, sexual affairs, ongoing betrayal, serial infidelity
Betrayal trauma — intrusive thoughts, hypervigilance, emotional flooding, loss of trust
Disclosure aftermath — navigating what was revealed, what's still hidden, and how to move forward
Trust rebuilding — learning to be trustworthy and learning to trust again
Sexual disconnection or avoidance following betrayal
Discernment counseling — deciding whether to repair the relationship or end it
Trauma from other relational wounds — childhood trauma, attachment injuries, or past relationships impacting the current partnership
Kaitlyn’s Background & Training
Kaitlyn earned her Master's degree in Counselor Education with a focus on Clinical Mental Health from the University of Central Florida.
Her professional experience includes:
Formal training in Systematic Affair Recovery Therapy (SART)—one of only two therapists in Florida trained in this specialized infidelity recovery protocol
Certification in Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART)—a rapid trauma-processing modality
Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy—using research-backed interventions for relational repair
Clinical supervision of student therapists and registered interns
Work across multiple levels of care—inpatient, residential, and outpatient settings with individuals, couples, families, and groups (ages 11+)
Intensive therapy provision—offering concentrated support for couples in acute crisis
Kaitlyn's clinical expertise is rooted in trauma resolution, attachment repair, and systematic approaches to rebuilding relationships after betrayal.
A Message From Kaitlyn
"Infidelity changes everything—but it doesn't have to end everything. Whether you're the partner who discovered the affair or the one who broke trust, healing is possible. My role is to help you stabilize the crisis, process the trauma, and decide what comes next—whether that's rebuilding together or separating with clarity. You don't have to navigate this alone."
Ready to work with Kaitlyn?
We invite you to schedule a FREE CONSULTATION with us to begin your healing journey.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you offer in-person therapy in Tampa and St. Petersburg?
Yes. Kaitlyn provides therapy at both IBW's Tampa and St. Petersburg offices.
Do you offer virtual therapy?
Yes. Kaitlyn offers telehealth sessions to clients anywhere in Florida.
Do you only work with infidelity?
Kaitlyn is currently accepting couples and individuals seeking healing after infidelity disclosure. This includes betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and discernment work.
What is SART?
Systematic Affair Recovery Therapy (SART) is a structured, research-informed protocol designed specifically for couples recovering from infidelity. Kaitlyn is one of two therapists in Florida trained in this approach.
Do you offer intensive therapy?
Yes. Kaitlyn provides intensive therapy for couples needing concentrated support beyond weekly sessions.